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| Clive and I |
As a natural born animal lover and someone who has spent
most of her life working in the pet industry, I may be a little biased when I
say that keeping animals as pets does wonders for the human psyche. But there
have been a number of studies done over the years stating that frequent
interaction with animals improves both mental and physical health and some even
say that owning pets can make you live longer.
Of course we see evidence of the important role therapy
animals play in helping people with physical disabilities every day and we all
think of the classic golden Labrador when talking about seeing eye dogs.
Now I
am starting to see more and more dogs of varying breeds on visits to shopping
centres, some say “hearing dog” on their little jackets but many of these are
un specified ‘service animals’ and play big part in helping those of us with
mental health issues such as anxiety stay grounded and perform tasks such as
grocery shopping more comfortably.
Another great example
of using animals as therapy is ‘hippotherapy’ which is despite the name, is
actually the practice of using horses as therapy animals – it might not be
quite as cool as using hippopotamus’s, but it is still very cool! I personally
know a few families that have had wonderful success when their Autistic
children with severe language and sensory processing disorders have gone on to
develop strong bonds with a horse as they learn to trust each other through
touch and body language.
But how do animals
improve our mental health?
1 Unconditional love and devotion
This is the big one, something that is
impossible to achieve with humans. Animals, dogs in particular will always love
you and forgive you no matter what, even if you were too tired to take them for
a walk today – or yesterday, even if dinner was two hours late and even if you
got mad at them 15 minutes ago for chewing your brand new slippers. As soon as
you say their name that tail will start wagging 100 miles an hour and
2 They don’t talk back
Unless of course you have a trained parrot,
in which case any back chat is usually exceptionally cute and sometimes
hilarious bordering on the inappropriate. But in all honesty, if you are unable
to introduce your pet parrot to your grandmother then you have most likely
brought that upon yourself!
But the ability to be able to simply pour
your heart out to your feline friend and then be validated by soft cuddles and
purring instead of judgement and opinions can go a long way.
3 Ability to pick up on emotional cues
Animals have this innate ability to tell
when you are having a bad day and then respond to it appropriately. Who can
stay angry for long when those big puppy dog eyes are staring at you with such
devotion? I know when I am sad or depressed my animals always respond, my
little Pomeranian ‘Deigo’ is particularly in tuned to my feelings and on bad
days he will sneak up onto the bed next to me and just cuddle quietly into me
giving me the odd reassuring lick to tell me he loves me.
4 No Judgement
So you haven’t showered in three days and
just ate a full tub of Ben & Jerry’s ice cream while binge watching seasons
1 and 2 of The Gilmore Girls. So what? As long as your furry companion can
cuddle up on the couch next to you then as far as they are concerned, just let
it be.
5 Responsibility
Owning a pet, while extremely rewarding,
also forces us to be responsible for something other than ourselves and this is
important. On days when the depression is winning our pets still need us, their
whole little worlds revolve around us and even if getting out of bed seems
impossible we still need to feed them, walk them, talk to them and love them.
While it can feel like a chore, being forced out of bed to take little LuLu
outside into the sunshine for a pee is actually very good for us.
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| "Blackie" |
During my many years working in the pet store we had tons of
regular customers, we saw these customers go through all manner of life events,
we saw how the bond of a dog could be lifesaving after the death of a spouse,
we watched the hilarity of merging blended cat families together, lent fish out
for weddings, watched custody fights over blue tongue lizards after divorce, supplied
information to help convince tentative landlords that keeping a pet turtle
would be fine in a rental home, we even babysat an axolotl while one man did a
3 month tour over in Afganastan.
Some of our customers were unable to keep pets at their own
houses but came in every week just to visit. One older lady came into the shop
every single morning at 9:30am Monday to Sunday for over 5 years and never
bought a thing, her visits were part of her daily routine and helped keep her
mental health on track. Pets are simply a huge part of human society, they need
us and we need them.
As my regular readers know, my own animals are a big part of
my life, I live on a farm and keep many pets. They are just as good as my
children at helping me keep structure and routines in my days, better possibly
because they can’t tell me what they need verbally so we need to be more in
tune with each other and communicate on a deeper level.
I also love the way they don’t judge me if I’m still in my
pyjamas when I take them for a walk around the farm and they don’t yell at me
for forgetting to buy cornflakes or neglecting to remind them their major
history assessment worth 50% of their grade is due the next morning…
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| "Diego" |
So I believe that having animals in your life is an
important part of maintaining good mental health. For people with fur allergies
fish are excellent pets, I can literally spend ½ hour just staring at my big
fish tank watching all the goings on – it’s a bit like meditation for me! Even
if you can’t own a pet yourself then go to your local pet store and pat a bunny,
visit the zoo or even ask if you can walk your neighbours dog while they are at
work. I promise, it will brighten up your day!
PS : To those lovely people who were concerned, I am also
pleased to report ‘Monet’ the Siamese Fighting Fish is very doing well, I put
him in a different tank and while he is still having some difficulties eating,
his fins are healing, he seems much happier and he’s even building a bubble
nest!
